The beauty and blessing of books in our lives

April 17, 2021

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(The Hamilton Spectator – Saturday, April 17, 2021)

“Healing place for the soul,” is what the ancient Greeks wrote at the doorways to their libraries. You don’t get that sacredness when you visit, say, YouTube. Or Netflix. Or your handy smartphone.

“In the beginning was the Word,” is what the ancients also declared. Not “In the beginning was the microchip.” It’s something to think about this upcoming week, our ongoing relationship, or lack of, with books. The UN’s World Book Day, April 23, is around the corner.

Of course, there are as many books out there as people. (Well, not literally. The planet has almost 8 billon people and roughly 130 million bound books.) But it’s story, character-driven story, or literary fiction, that’s especially helpful in this, where our souls are most nourished.

A child can hear a bedtime story a thousand times. “Read it again. Again. Please?” Life hasn’t yet beaten, or shamed, it out of them, this natural human bent for story. Some character falls in love. Or runs away. Or lives as crazy as the Mad Hatter. Someone’s about to step into it, the unknown.

And if you’ve ever questioned it, yes, such imaginary stories matter. Very much. Because when you enter the mind of some character on a page, your brain’s activity can be now be measured to show that you’re entering that experience as if it were your own. It’s remarkable confirmation that the only things that will ever change your life are the people you meet and the books you read.

Known as theory of mind, the science suggests that immersing yourself in a character-driven story helps you better understand flesh-and-blood people around you. You’ll have more empathy, especially for people different than you. Which is rather helpful in a time when public discourse and personal relationships are filled with us-versus-them thinking.

Yes, the world’s most powerful computer processor is where? It’s between your ears. And people who don’t nourish their imaginations can easily lose their sense of place and purpose.

Ray Bradbury said as much when he wrote the classic novel “Fahrenheit 451,” where firemen don’t end fires, but start them. They burn books. Child No. 1, my eldest (photographed here with her mother, my wife, Jean) and with one of her first books, just studied it in high school. And why are books burned? Because they’ll make you think. Make you uncomfortable. Steal your happy-clappyness.

As it is, writing programs tend to hold their own. Everyone wants to be Hemingway. But more foundational literature studies? Not so much, not today, even though it’s shown that studying humanities such as literature give highly-marketable skills in creativity, persuasion and collaboration, along with personal well-being. In a microchip world, who wants to lift much?

So if you’re looking for a good read, you could do worse than “Fahrenheit 451.” It asks some fair questions: What sort of people do we really want to be? What kind of world do we want to create? But whatever you read, just read. For yourself and those around you.

If you’re like me, the stories that will especially do it for you are by writers who give of their deeper selves. Frederick Buechner elaborates on this, that it’s like their blood is transfused from their veins to yours. “The Catcher in the Rye” is one book that did it for me early on. But enough others do the same, making us more human and uncovering truths we’d otherwise easily walk past.

One short story writer, Raymond Carver — I once enjoyed a holy moment, and a cigar, at his Washington State gravesite — put it this way: “Writers don’t need tricks or gimmicks, or even necessarily need to be the smartest fellows on the block. At the risk of appearing foolish, a writer sometimes needs to be able to just stand and gape at this or that thing — a sunset or an old shoe — in absolute and simple amazement.”

There’s that sacredness again. It’s really something. Something to pass on, especially to the children.

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14 thoughts on “The beauty and blessing of books in our lives”

  1. Thanks Thom for this piece. I totally agree that the things that change our lives are the people we meet and the books we read. Through your works I too have been challenged to ‘ read and write’. God bless you

  2. I so agree with you – books expand horizons, their characters become old friends that accompany us through life. I grew up on a road called Book Road – sometimes I think about how apt that was, given my love of books.

    In this day of specialization with focus on particular careers, we lose the broader perspective of the classics, the timelessness of The Odyssey or The Divine Comedy. As we read them, they in turn help us to read ourselves and our lives.

  3. Another fantastic piece, Thomas.
    We think of you and Jean and your family often
    Peter and Erna Durksen

    PS- I have just finished reading a 2021 book, White Coal City, by Robert Boschman.
    Its about a Mennonite guy growing up in Prince Albert, Sask, and dealing with family violence, abuse of natives,
    pollution, and more.

  4. Thank you!! When I was growing up, I didn’t know about bedtime stories. I had great parents, but this was neglected. I was sure to read bedtime stories to my children, and it was always, “read the next chapter” ????

  5. I thought you’d appreciate this quote about books by Susan Hill:
    ‘A special relationship is formed with books that have been on our shelves for years without being read. They become known in a strange way, perhaps because we have read a lot about them, or they are books that are part of our overall heritage. I think I know a lot about ‘Don Quixote’. I DO know a lot about ‘Don Quixote’. I have just never read it. I doubt if I ever will. But… ‘Don Quixote’ has an honourable, permanent place on my shelves. It would be wrong to get rid of it and, besides, I should miss its red leather binding.’

  6. Our house overflows with books! And creating a free little library tends to bring more books in than go out. My favourite gift for our grandchildren: books. Thank you for the article, Thomas.

  7. A quote that’s interesting and true. It’s all about how much time we do or don’t have to get to those many books on the shelves. I find audio books are a great way to get more story time in. Walking and listing is good for both heart and mind.

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